MARRIAGE
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MARRIAGE
is an institution with varied association. In Hinduism and in the Catholic
religion at least, marriage is taken to be an indissoluble and sacred
institution. To these faiths, marriages are literally made in heaven. In some
countries marriage is a contract and it is therefore capable of being
dissolved. Even where the law of divorce is found on the statute book, some
countries like the United Kingdom do not allow a divorce as far as the royal
family is concerned. When we turn to astrology, we only know that marriages are
largely governed by planetary dispositions. We do not think that astrology
would sanction divorce or oppose it, since astrology is neither a legislature
nor a judge. Astrology only enables us to make a marriage happy or otherwise. |
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Since the
zodiac begins with Aries (Mesha). the natural seventh is Libra (Tula). The main
indicators of marriage are Libra and its lord, as far as men are concerned. The
seventh from Libra being Aries, the chief indicators of marriage for a woman
are Aries and Mars. In a woman's chart, the Moon too must be taken into
consideration since the menstrual period is regulated by Moon and Mars; and in
a man's nativity Sun too must be examined carefully. |
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In
a man's chart, we have to consider Libra and the 7th from the ascendant, Sun
and Venus; and in a woman's we must note Aries and the seventh from the
ascendant, Moon and Mars. The eighth houses from these govern the sex life; and
therefore Scorpio for the men and Taurus for women have to be added to the
list. Then the extra marital life is determined by the twelfth house from the
ascendant; and in a man's chart, Pisces too need scrutiny while in a woman's
Virgo too deserves a study. This might terrify one since all the houses and
planets appear to get into the picture. But what is needed is to findout the
strongest among the ascendant, Sun and Venus in a man's chart, and among the
ascendant Moon and Mars in a woman's. The major scrutiny should be from this
point only. The others are needed as corroborating or strengthening aids only. |
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An
afflliction to a planet or house arises from a conjunction with or an aspect by
a planet who is a malefic by nature or by ownership or by both. If a
conjunction with or an aspect by a benefic also operates, then we get mixed
character of the house or planet. |
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A
strong, well-placed and unafflicted Venus gives a harmonious and balanced
marital life of man. A similar Mars governs the balanced sex life of a woman.
These are the two basic planets. Venus is to be examined with the Sun, and Mars
with the Moon. The position of Venus in a male chart is to be compared with
that of Mars in the wife's chart; and a similar comparison between the Sun in
the Husband's chart and the Moon in the wife's is necessary. Whether they
aspect one another, they are in square or trine to one another, or they are
inimical to one another must be carefully noted. The next step is to see
whether the Navamsa chart of the wife agrees with the Rasi chart of the
husband, and whether the Rasi chart of the wife agrees with the Navamsa chart
of the husband. These preliminary observations will be taken up for a scrutiny
and a later stage. Now we have to consider the possible effects resulting from
certain positions of the planets. In the following , he means and includes she
also. |
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The
Sun in the seventh indicates a successful marriage; and in the eighth a
successful interest in the affairs where the strongest feelings are involved
and in matters of sex. The moon in the seventh makes one change his attitude
frequently towards those intimately related to him; and he hopes the marriage
partner to be motherly. The eighth house position stimulates these interests.
Mercury in the seventh can either advance or related reciprocity of feelings
and emotions; and in the eighth he affects the emotions roused by others. Venus
in the seventh is a very good indication of happy marriage and of the ability
to live with others in peace and happiness. If this Venus is afflicted, there
may be disappointment in this direction. In the eighth Venus secures a balanced
sex life if it is not afflicted. Mars in the seventh makes one forceful in
intimate relationships. If afflicted, it might bring about irritation and
quarrels. In the eighth it makes sex life very important for the native. The
seventh house Jupiter is very good for marriage life. In the eight it brings
prosperity through marriage. Saturn in the seventh brings about frustration and
disappointment in marriage, if it is afflicted. In the eighth, it makes one
serious in matters concerning sex. |
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Of
the various signs involved in a consideration of the problem of marriage, there
are a few sensitive degrees which may be noted. All these refer to the Nirayana
of Sidereal Zodiac only. |
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Aries
: 1°,
The sexual need is an inescapable necessity. It might be almost fatal. 2°,
one is fierce, restless and selfish, whimsical , and tyrannical, without any
sign of chivalry. 4°,
one is sensuous and generous. 6°,
one may be ruined by the partner. 9°,
it is likely that one may have untimely love. 11°,
It makes one lack the ability to live in harmony with the person he or she
loves. 13°,
one is passionate to access or is completely detached and isolated. 14°,
it speaks of deep-rooted lust. 17°,
it refers to many a love affair and an artless and coarse behavior. 19°,
it suggests an ideal partner. 22°,
one is indifferent to love. 23°,
marriage can be lucky. 26°,
one has a very good feminine nature. Gentle and sweet, she will be least
self-assertive. |
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Taurus
: 3°,
one loves peace and spreads around himself comfort and harmony. 6°,
the woman would order her husband and bully him. There may be bigotry and
vulgarity. 8°,
one gives himself or herself up wholly to friendship and this might lead to
strife in family and unhappy married life. This is likely to ruin one's self
respect. 10°,
it gives rise to chaos and disorder in the household. 11°
,14°,
It offers a happy marriage. 15°,
one is fond of family and home, and yet faces domestic strife. 18°,
one is fond of his family, but is really despotic and unscrupulous. 25°,
there is a likelihood of being divided from the partner. 29°,
it indicates happy marriage and perfect sociability. 30°,
it is likely that estrangement from the partner and children follows. |
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Libra
: 3°,
it gives a generous heart. 8°,
one allows himself or herself to be ruled unconditionally by the person he or
she loves. In some cases we may find lust and delinquency. 15°,
his behavior is determined by his sexual urge. Intrigues and adventures
dominate his love affairs and she will quarrel over very paltry things.
Sometimes lust may make him a criminal. 18°,
one is unable to live without love; and there is faithfulness along with
jealousy. 19°,
there is strong sex urge which may develop into lust. 22°,
it offers neither joy nor pleasure in life. 24°,
on his private life he is selfish and lustful, shameless and sensuous. 26°,
there is an unbridled lustfulness, and he becomes a prey to wine, women
and gambling. 29°,
he is deeply attached to home. |
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Scorpio
: 10°,
one is dominated by sex urge, love of family and home. 12°,
it indicates loneliness, sorrow and widowhood. 14°,
it offers a steady domestic happiness. 19°,
one becomes a deeply attached lover lavishing his affections. Sometimes excess
of lust may bring home to trouble. |
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