VASTU
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What has
vastu to do with domestic happiness ?
How Vastu, which is the science of dwellings, links itself to the happiness in
the family.
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The
Vedas, the wisdom books and knowledge banks of India, has given us the great
Panchataras (Jyotisha, Yoga, Ayurveda and Vastu) of our culture. All these
science are inter-related and inter-dependent.
Each sector of a quadrangle (Mandala) is identified with the primary elements
of Nature. When these identifications are studied carefully, those can be
applied to bring in happiness into the family.
Every body says "Home, sweet home." How can a home be sweet if there are
disturbances and agitations in the family? Such disturbances can broadly relate
to :
A) Peace of mind,
B) Behaviour,
C) Education,
D) Routine or day to day family ,
conflicts or confrontations |
E)
Health
F) Profession, or
G) Finances
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Peace of
Mind |
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If you want to
prevent or minimize the problems arising out of the infantile actions or
inaction of other members of the family or if you want to give yourselves
enough strength to face the onslaught from family members? For this, get enough
strength first and then think trying to solve the problems of your family
member. The right and legitimate Vastu place for you in the house is the
South-West or if that is not available then South of the house. In this area
you need to spend at least eight hours a day. |
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In ancient
times, our kings would sit on the throne, which had a certain placement. When
they sat there, the assembly, which consisted of ministers and people, would be
able to discuss properly matters of importance and the kings were able to award
fair judgements. We just need to adapt to this ancient practice in our day to
day lives. |
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In the room selected for parents
the bed need to go the south-west corners of the rooms without touching either
the western wall or southern wall. We should always sleep with your head to the
south. South polarity is induced in the head. This simple principle applies to
everyone in the northern hemisphere. When the head is placed to the
geographical or magnetic north, the blood circulation is stable and hence will
ensure you better health. As a result, it will help you to examine family
issues justly. Once you are able to review matters appropriately, you will be
able to take the right decisions. This way, you will be able to understand the
grievances of your family members and communication between you and your
siblings are likely to improve. When it does, you have peace of mind. |
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Behaviour |
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Good
behaviour of family members is one important aspect of family happiness. When
each member of the family understands his/her responsibility towards the
family, happiness stays intact, but when one rebels without worrying about
one's own responsibility, peace in the family begins to drift away. Such
rebelling could be in the form of disturbing behaviour. It could be in the form
of verbal aggression on other family members for no rhyme or reason, and can
sometimes be even in the form of physical violence. |
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If you
have to choose the north-west and south-east rooms between your daughter and
son, It is better to give the northwest room to your daughter and the
south-east room to your son. |
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Agneya
(South-East) is ruled by agni or fire which relates to assertiveness and
aggressive attitude. Venus rules this sector astrologically and relates to
contentment, wife (or husband) and fortune. Venus also is the Karaka for
marriage. This sector therefore relates to peace of mind (or otherwise) of a
couple and consequently, to family happiness. As Agni is predominant in this
sector, it would be wise for newly married couple to keep away from this room. |
Timid children can make use of this
room and hope to come out of their fear and get confident. People who are by
nature aggressive (and warlike) can avoid a south-east room.
Vayuvya (North-West) is ruled by Vayu or air, which relates to movement or
transit Astrologically, this sector is ruled by the Moon and consequently,
relates to the mind. The Moon also is the Karaka for mother. |
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Taking this as the basis of our
understanding, we can safely conclude this sector also relates to peace of mind
of one's mother and naturally, to peace of mind of the family. This sector is
not suitable for already disturbed minds. If we have to use the north-west
rooms invariably, we need to strengthen the interiors so that the disturbance
is minimized, if not removed. This sector may not be appropriate for youngsters
in their formative years, especially boys.
Newly-wed couples can use this room. |
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Education
Education (or lack of it) is another important aspect in life which invariably
adds (or lessens) to the happiness in a family. We see children doing extremely
well and parents are delighted about it. We also see children not faring well
inspite of their own hard study and the constant coaxing of the parents to
study. How can we make then study better? |
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Students who have difficulty in
studies can study in South-East rooms sitting in the North-East corners of the
rooms facing East.
Intelligent students can select a North-East room and study their lessons
facing East sitting in the central East of the room. Students are advised to
sleep with their heads to the East. They can have their beds in the South-west
corners of their rooms. |
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Experiments in medical electricity
have brought to light that if a current of electricity is passed from one part
of the body to another, It subdues all inflammation in that part of the body
where it enters. Now, in lying down with the head placed eastward, the current
of thermal electricity which is constantly passing over the surface of the
earth from east to west, passes also through the body from the head to the feet
and subdues inflammation. Therefore, There is a clear and healthy head, which
in turn makes the student study and understand his lessons properly. It is
precisely for this reason that sage Markandeya said that a man becomes learned
by lying down with his head placed Eastward and is troubled with distressing
thoughts by lyingdown with his head placed westward. |
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Routine
Conflicts |
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We also find that normal day to day
conflicts among the family members also affect peace of mind of the parents and
elders of the family. These disturbances can sometimes be traced to the South -
West. Check if there is a water source (water stump or well) in the South-west
of the house and if so, close it by filling it up with cement or earth. If you
find that the South-West of the house is chopped off, this could also be the
reason for the hostility among the family members leading to depression in the
elder's rational thinking. |
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Care should be also be taken to see
that no door is either on the south or West of the South-west of the building.
A door on the South west of a building (or room ) is likely to create family
disturbances. |
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Health |
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Health is another important aspect
of family happiness. General health can be improved by sleeping with the head
placed South. Disturbed minds can make use of central east rooms with their
beds to the south - west corners of the room and not touching the walls. |
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Profession |
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Contentment
and happiness in your profession is another contributory factor to family
happiness. Apart from looking into the placements of your room in your office
and arrangement of furniture in that room, it is necessary that you get used to
facing East. The East sector ruled by the Sun is synonymous with health -
physical and mental. You will be able to think properly and take fair decisions
on anything related to your profession. |
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Finances
Financial stringency is another factor that contributes to family unhappiness.
We find people complaining that the inflow of revenue does not match their hard
and sincere effort. We can trace improper flow of money to several factors. The
ancient works have invariably recommended a North of North-east water source.
We find that temples, which are financially prosperous, have their Pushkarnis
in the North of North-east. If you are planning to go for a well or a water
pump, you can try to locate it in the North of North-east of your site. |
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It is
also said that the North is ruled by Kubera. You can place your assets like
jewellery, cash, bank cheque books, property papers and other important
documents in a central north room of the house with the almirahs kept in the
south - west corners of the room and opening towards the North. This way the
revenue of the family can stabilize. |
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Vastu shastra is
handed over to us to regulate our lives. These suggested Vastu recommendations
can help to lessens problems faced in a family and improve things. We, of
course, need to understand that we are always working within a framework set by
our horoscopes. Within this we can try to archieve the best that is due to us.
Once we know that we are working within the limits set by the Almighty, We will
be able to reasonably achieve family happiness by making use of Vastu rules
laid down by the Vedas. |
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